self-love

assalamualaikum & hi lovelies!

today i wanna talk about self-love. what is self-love? self-love is a state of appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support our physical, psychological and spiritual growth. (read this blog for more: https://www.bbrfoundation.org/blog/self-love-and-what-it-means)

why do you have to self-love? because yourself is the only one you have when you have no one. you may have a good friend, a lovely family, a caring partner, but the answer is till when?

who was there when you sad at the 3 a.m.? it's you babe. for me, self-love is simple. when the happiness stay within me and did not depend on other people, that self-love. i must say this is not easy, it took me 2 years to be superior in this. what can i say, when you love yourself, nothing can take you down.

for this slot, i want to focus why self-love is so important, before you start a relationship. i want you to know because... my past relationship kinda mess up because my lack of self-love and an overload insecurities. i don't want any of you to feel the same way again.

it sucks.

you are loved and deserve all the good things only.

imagine;
1. u hate urself and when he just love u with bare minimun effort, u think its already the greatest love.
2. u love urself so much that u know that his love is just the lil bit and you deserved more than that.
3. u hate urself and when someone tell u/loved u, u think that they are already loved u so much; almost more than how u love urself.

apa i merepek ni but nvm susahla, nak buat tak faham cuba lukis bila lukis i lak merepek, papepun-

last but not least, you are deserved to be loved and chosen, not almost chosen or as a backup plan. think about yourself first before others because that the only one you've got for forever.

never fall back for bare minimum, you know what you deserved! stop denying things and being such as weak knee for temporary happiness, it not worth it.

last but not least if ur lazy to love yourself, let me do it for you<3

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