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in.si.ki.yur(?)

hi lovelies, whenever the word 'insecure' pop-up in our mind, i can predict its always gives us the negative aura. topic about insecurities is the one that always gonna relate to our broken soul and also make us doubt ourself. everyone has insecurities. don't deny it. the confident one is just the people who can hide it well. so, today i want to share things to do to make you not insecure even though youre insecure. hahax 1. shhh! dont tell em' rules no. 1, NEVER EVER tell people your insecurities. i start to realise this one when i told my roomate that i insecure about - - -. lol not gonna told ya:p then my roomate say, "serious ke wina? leha tak pernah perasan pun yang - - - wina camtu. bila wina bagitau, terus cam nampak." see, most of people don't even care and notice your insecurities until you told them. people don't even notice your unsymmetry face, your acnes, the sizes of your nose/ear, your lazy eyes, your walking gestures, everything. people...

sneak-peek love paling mel (wattpad babies)

hi lovelies, today i want to share with u guys a simple trailer tak trailer sangat, so i just call it sneak-peek ok. just for u guys to get the first impression and imagination for the cast in my second baby on wattpad; love paling mel. enjoy okies:)

รัก 언어 (love language)

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hi lovelies. what language do you speak? malay? mandarin? english? korean? or thailand? it is frust isn'nt if you don't even understand the language someone speak, especially from someone you loved. just imagine he's speaking korean but you're speaking thailand. do you guys can really get along? do you can confirm that one day the language you're speaking is not gonna be one of the problem in your relationship? how to fix that? easy. you don't have to speak the same language as him. just understand. just try to understand his language. for example, he's annyeonghaseyo and your sawaddee-ka. you know he said hi and he also know you said hi. the communication become much more easier when your understand each other language. does i want to rant about language? nope. today i would like to talk about my favourite topic: five love languages . look at the infographic below and try to understand yea; source: https://balance.media/communicate-love-languages/ sour...

self-love

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assalamualaikum & hi lovelies! today i wanna talk about self-love. what is self-love? self-love is a state of appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support our physical, psychological and spiritual growth. (read this blog for more: https://www.bbrfoundation.org/blog/self-love-and-what-it-means) why do you have to self-love? because yourself is the only one you have when you have no one. you may have a good friend, a lovely family, a caring partner, but the answer is till when? who was there when you sad at the 3 a.m.? it's you babe. for me, self-love is simple. when the happiness stay within me and did not depend on other people, that self-love. i must say this is not easy, it took me 2 years to be superior in this. what can i say, when you love yourself, nothing can take you down. for this slot, i want to focus why self-love is so important, before you start a relationship. i want you to know because... my past relationship kinda mess up because my lack of self...

her

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her. i don't really have to say her name, but her sweet face always carved in my head, automatically pop-up whenever i hear the word 'comfort person'. she was the greatest girl gift in my life, wouldn't ask for more friends. she's enough for me. i hate that i can't find the comfort of her in others, especially in men. maybe that's why my relationship never succeed. i never comfortable with men like when im with her. i always try to find the comfort in others, but i can't. maybe i should stop trying hard to find the comfortness she gave me in others. but i hate that i always depends on her. i can say that im an independent girl but when im with her, im a weak ass. she always make me feel touched, maybe she doesn't even know it. she always doesn't even know it or forgot things. she might forgot what im gonna tell u guys below. she's the one who touch my faces when im having chickenpox, to clean my face (theres nanah at my face that time). while...

baby butterflies

tbh, i really tought my butterlies is dead. i really did. for few years, i did not feel any butterflies anymore. im happy, but no butterflies in my stomach. no, don't talk to me about butterflies in stomach is just a trick for nervous yada-yada, stophhh. let me enjoy things. but one day, i felt butterflies, really a lot. you know why? not because i wanna terbirak so much. its when my friend told me she's pregnant. do you know how happy am i? i always want that. to have a tiny feet, tiny badump-badump in your uterus... how magical feeling it can be? i always want to be a mother. checking on how to adopt kids kinda my annual thingy. i've gave hints to my parents but the. forbid it, and i didn't blame them for not approve and think like me. because i know, whatever it is, they always want the best for me. nope, when i say i want kids/baby i didn't really want to get married (lot's of drama and i have to meet men) or having sex or yada-yada, i just want a kid...

jar idea for your loved ones

assalamualaikum & hi guys today i wanna share with you guys the things that i give to my best friend on her birthday. i gave her a 'mood booster jar'. this is the sneak peek of the gift (i made everything by myself because i'm broke) :') the jar was at the back, forgot to focus on it ;') the box, i just use the intimate pantyliner box, and then i wrapped it with sticker wallpaper i've bought from diy store. i put a thick and baggy shirt in the box for her. and the card, i just wrapper the small square cardboard inside the pantyliner box, and then i print > laminate our picture with polaroid shape. i provide you guys with the link to download the pptx below. this pptx contains the 374 message (if i'm not mistaken). https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1cygN3WjEGT_-amstitcHCsnITNemG2tM?usp=sharing  cr: @chibird @happy monster you can just print it > cut the lines > roll the paper > put it into a jar! it was a very cute and you can save a lot ...