รัก 언어 (love language)

hi lovelies.

what language do you speak? malay? mandarin? english? korean? or thailand?

it is frust isn'nt if you don't even understand the language someone speak, especially from someone you loved.

just imagine he's speaking korean but you're speaking thailand. do you guys can really get along? do you can confirm that one day the language you're speaking is not gonna be one of the problem in your relationship?

how to fix that? easy. you don't have to speak the same language as him. just understand. just try to understand his language.

for example, he's annyeonghaseyo and your sawaddee-ka. you know he said hi and he also know you said hi. the communication become much more easier when your understand each other language.

does i want to rant about language? nope.

today i would like to talk about my favourite topic: five love languages. look at the infographic below and try to understand yea;
source: https://balance.media/communicate-love-languages/
source: https://survivingmomblog.com/relationships/understanding-the-love-languages-of-yourself-and-your-partner/
source: https://jennynurick.com/complaints-as-a-guide-to-your-partners-love-language/
source: https://www.selfloverainbow.com/2017/02/5-self-love-languages.html
source: https://www.pinterest.com/pin/love-languagesin-coffee--279434351867995321/ 

you can search more on google/pinterest/youtube if you want to learn more about it okies.

just like what i've said before, language is important in communication and an effective communication is the key for a healthy relationship.

first thing first, you have to identify your love language. if you have partner, you also need to know what is his love language.

how? you can check it out from this simple quiz or any quiz on the internet but this one is my favourite. you can also subscribe the email so that you will get so much love letter from the owner/writer. link: https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes 

some people may not obviously show their love language, but you can learn. when you love someone, you have to learn him to earn him.

love language is so much important so make your +1 feel appreaciated.

if his love language is physical touch, the coffee you gave him is just a bare minimum. if his love language is receiving gifts, your i love you doesn't mean that much. if his love language is quality time, the lunch you ordered for him using foodpanda is just a small act.

that's why i said to understand someone's love language is a must thing to do.

just like you can have a multilanguage skill, a human also can have multi-love-language. but there must be one dominance love language.

i hope whatever the love language it is, you're willling to embrace yours and learn your partner's.

that's all my quick entry for today, gotta back to reality!

ps: my love language is physical touch, quality time and a little act of service. i can volunteerly hold your hand while sitting beside you and doing nothing for 24 hours straight, add up if your driving for me (lil act of service) <3 the phrases 'i love you' 'i need you' 'i miss you' and all those pickuplines not gonna works (definitely not a words of affirmation), receiving gifts/surprises make me feel bad and indebted (not receiving gifts). hby?

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